Old school dating rules
Old school dating rules
Girls, make the guy call you, not the other way around. If he doesn't have the guts to dial seven numbers and say, “hello," then he's not worth dating. Guys need to call it a “date" and make their intentions known.
There is no better way to make your date's parents question your integrity than by breaking their rules 9.
It's apparently much easier to see if she wants to “hang out," which leaves so much room for interpretation, and inevitably lead to an exasperated girl finally asking the guy, “So are we just 'hanging out' or is this a date? She'd give them a short dating etiquette lesson that ended with her abruptly hanging up the phone.
" Perhaps, it's time to re-teach dating etiquette in the hopes that a few young guys and girls can reject the ambiguity of current dating trends in favor of a straightforward and respectful approach – one that takes place in real life and not just on the Internet. (Of course, this was back when girls had to actually call the “house phone" – a word I have had to teach my sons).
Do you ever feel like you were born in the wrong era? The small gestures really make a difference in the development of a strong and healthy relationship.
When a boy acts like a man, and treats you like a woman…those were the good old days.
What was once a black and white process has somehow seeped into the gray-- where guys and girls text or message back and forth on social media for weeks on end before the guy finally gets up the courage to text the girl he likes to ask her if she will go out with him.
(That's assuming he actually asks her out or even uses the word “date" in a sentence). I distinctly remember how angry my mom would get when flirty junior high girls called to talk to my cute 7th grade brother.If you like a girl, tell her that you like her and want to go on a date.If you want to get to know someone better then say that, and if you just want to go out “as friends" then make that clear too. This is a non-negotiable, especially for a first date. Make eye contact and talk to your date even if it's the longest two hours of your life.Dating just for fun is great for high school kids, but not so great for those 20 and 30 somethings who are ready to get married, so just keep your intentions clear and you can avoid all the awkwardness and ambiguity of “hanging out." 3. Guys should always go to the door to pick up their date, preferably with flowers in hand. They try on five different outfits and spend hours planning what they will wear, but guys, please take a shower. If a guy can't afford to pay for the date, then he shouldn't have asked the girl in the first place. Don't act bored or disinterested (even if you are).This way the guy can introduce himself to his date's parents, giving her father a firm handshake, allowing him to say a few words about “shotguns" and “shallow graves." (This, is, of course, assuming she lives with her parents). Whatever you do, guys, don't call from the car or text “Hey, I'm here." It's lazy and kind of cowardly. Put on deodorant and a nice (clean) shirt and jeans, (maybe even some cologne). And, girls, on behalf of all guys everywhere, please don't order a salad to try and save the guy some money. Guys should open car doors (and all other doors) and pull their date's chair away from the table. When the guy does what he "should," say thank you – thank you for inviting me, thank you for opening the door, thank you for dinner. There is nothing more off-putting than seeing your date trying to entertain himself/herself or stay connected to everyone (except for your) while on a date. Walk your date to the door, and make sure she's home on time. A person might flirt with you and may really like you, but that doesn’t mean the two of you will be having sex, so don’t ever assume it. Write a poem or song, paint something, or give a little handmade surprise. Most people are a little shy when it comes to asking, but it needs to be known after spending time together. What do you think, will these old-fashioned ways come back in style?