Desi girls dating norms

17-Apr-2019 02:59 by 10 Comments

Desi girls dating norms

In my opinion, if they had to go out and attract a woman entirely on their own (and assuming she had unfettered free will and choice in the matter), they would be less likely to indulge in these behaviours. In years past I have come to India for work, and in my current stay in Delhi I am living with family and am privy to another side of India.Whilst the professional men that I have met don’t have the more distasteful personal habits, I do still find them very difficult to understand.

I am not sure about this as in western societies, where there is no such delineation, women are also viewed as sexual objects and sexual violence still occurs.Also it is unclear to me if the separation of men and women (for example in the trains) is a reaction to the violence or the cause.Feeling a little uneasy, I continue on with my internet research and find this blog on Reasons to Marry an Indian Man.I don’t understand what the attraction is to shiny pants, thick striped shirts and hair that is carefully patted down to one side and glistening with coconut oil.Don’t get me wrong, I am far less interested in a person’s looks, but a sense of personal style is part of what makes someone attractive in my opinion, and what someone’s mother finds attractive is not usually what a potential mate may find appealing.So which one is true, or are they the two faces of the same person.

It continued on for pages and pages, lists of sites denigrating the Indian male and trying to explain reasons for his various “behaviours”. Up popped a range of sites of beautiful women, dating sites, some women’s rights organisations and beauty websites.

Several years ago I tried my hand at internet dating through the website

Here I found hundreds of men all with photos where they looked like their mother had dressed them.

My simplistic explanation on why this behaviour is tolerated comes down to the arranged marriage.

The men I have observed undertaking this behaviour tend to be of lesser socio-economic means, and in my rudimentary understanding of the intricacies of Indian culture, I believe they are more likely to have an arranged marriage.

I think it is easy to blame the mother for men’s shortcomings, but there seems to be a contradiction between this argument and the first article on the level of violence towards women.

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