Dating for relationship
Dating for relationship
Dating and relationships are hard enough, even with great communication. Trust becomes difficult to produce and keeps healthy and lasting love at a distance.
Not responding to texts right away means they are no longer interested, or that something went horribly wrong.
You start to play things back and wonder where the holes were, especially if this person is someone you recently met. It’s not the obvious dropoff that gets our mind spinning. But when the inconsistencies are subtle, like minutes turning into hours, or the tone and energy changing, it can drive us nuts. So what do you do when you notice a slight delay or change in tone?
Then, of course, you find out the truth: They were in a meeting. If their response time goes from a few minutes to two days, yeah, something has changed — most likely feelings. Don’t jump to conclusions until you get all the information.
Without even talking to him or getting the facts, I made a decision to distance myself. There are so many reasons why a kiss doesn’t surface on a first date that has nothing to do with you or the chemistry.
I thought if he’s not going to give me as much as I give him, why invest in this? Then I slowly got used to it and learned that that’s just the way he is. The person may want to kiss you, but the timing may be off, or the activity doesn’t allow for that moment.
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